Waaaaay off topic........" English 101"
Quote: 'In other words, it's just possible that some of these people writing nasty notes aren't even aware that they are being nasty. Take me for instance! "
Point noted Smyslov. I apologise if whatever -ve vibes got to you in some way. When I saw that baseless accusation thrown at me & the aggressive words directed to Willempie I just flipped.
There are ways of writing to deliver a sharp stinging message w/o sounding offensive/ aggressive/emotional. You belong in that category of writers. So no worries. (you are an English teacher right? since you hv such way with words)
But words like 'cyber smack you for your ridiculousness' is nasty & immature; A simple 'I disagree with your views' would suffice. Or if you want more sting, 'It is unlikely that you should have such uninformed/naive views.'
Also in the spoken language, where intonations & body gestures also come into play, "f*** you!" can be a remark said in jest (tho its still in bad taste) or a highly repulsive insult. But in the written language where there are no jesticulations or intonations, wordings have to be precise & chosen well to convey what you actually mean.
With all due respect, I just hope good ol BK realises this.