BTW, I don't play this line either; but have been following it on this site. The coverage here has been great. Tony and Richard have annotated many of the key games in depth.
So, here's what I know or at least what I think I know. After 12..Bf8 13.Qd2 Rb8 14.Qf2, Black pretty much plays 14..e5. Carlsen tried 15.fxe5 dxe5 (15..Nxe5!?) 16.Nb3 when 16..Be6 has emerged as Black's best. Giri mentioned this in his annotations and Loek Van Wely played it twice in the Amsterdam NH Hotel tournament. All respect to Carlsen and those who have followed his lead, but 15.fxe5 doesn't look too scary these days or at least not as scary as the alternative.
The alternative is 15.Nde2 when 15..exf4 was supposed to lead to +/= or = depending on which commentator you believe. Then, along came Rublevsky, who, in his 2007 Candidates Match with Gruschuk, tried 15..b5. Their game petered out to an early draw after 18.Ng3, so not really a test.
Jakovenko must have liked White, though, because he played it next against Rublevsky. That game continued 18..Nxc2 19.Bg5 Nxa1 20.Bxf6 Qc5 21.Qd2 Nb3 22.Qg5 h6 23.Qg4 g6 24.Nd5 Nd4 25.Bg5! when White was better. Richard, however, indicates that Black could have improved with 24..Nd2, so perhaps all is not lost?
Rublevsky must believe in Black's position because he continues to play this line. Maybe he just figures that he knows it better than his opponent, and the positions are so sharp and complicated that he's likely to come out on top. Or maybe he's just a masochist who likes to defend tough positions.
In any event, I don't find any further games with 18.Ng3. A bit puzzling, maybe there is a big unplayed improvement for Black that has put people off, but I suspect that attention shifted to 18.Bg5, since Black initially tried 18..Be7 and didn't fare well.
As you note, the two highest rated to have played this line opted for Qb6 and Qc5. On 19.Ng3 Qxf2 Black looked OK to me in the game you mentioned.
More interesting might be 19.Qh4 Be7 20.Ng3 Nxc2 21.Nh5 Nxh5 22.Bxe7 Nf4 23.g3 as in Predojevic-Rublevsky, Serbia 2009. Here, Rublevsky played 23..f6, when White responded 24.Bxf6, but simply 24.gxf4 Re7 25.Nd5 might have kept an edge. So maybe Black should consider 23..Nxa1, 23..b4 or 23..Nd3? Time, I suspect, will tell.
Cheers.