Ludde wrote on 01/28/10 at 07:53:36:
My father, who was a decent chessplayer and completely responsible for me taking up chess more than 30 years ago, was quite tough. Not in the usual way, but when it came to chess he always played the strongest moves he could find - even against his beginner son. He believed that it was somehow "dishonest" not to play his absolutely best game every time.
With my own sons I made the terrible mistake of not always playing well and also coaching them during their play. The result was that they lost confidence in their own ability to find good moves and got sick of the game.
Later when I started chess kids at my wife's school, I always gave the kids my best game, and I never coached during the play but only after the game. I had very good results coaching chess kids, and I'm convinced that this is indeed the best way to play chess with children.
Pretty interesting story about Alekhine's. Mine is that when I started to play chess seriously at age 15 or so, I stupidly thought that I'd gain some advantage from playing in a hypermodern vein and so took up Alekhine's. Fortunately there as an old Russian in our club, Vadim Voskressensky, who played the Four Pawns Attack and tore off my head with it five or six games in a row. That cured me of my early Alekhine's folly, though only much later did I realize that I should have been playing 1...e5 during that time of my development.
I have no way to explain my current Alekhine's folly. Senile dementia, perhaps.