ah right
but actually one of my online opponents may have solved the problem for me in other way:
[Event "ChessWorld.net"]
[Date "2010"]
[White "tsmenace"]
[Black "Magellen"]
[ECO "C34"]
1. e4 e5 2. f4 exf4 3. Nf3 h5 4. d4 g5 5. h4 g4 6. Ne5 d6 7. Nd3 f3 8. gxf3 Be7 9. Be3 Bxh4+ 10. Kd2 Bg5 11. f4 Bh6!?
This is a nice idea; e.g.:
a) 12 Rxh5 Nf6 regains the pawn on e4.
b) 12 Bg2 h4 — and with the Rh8 concealed by the bishop, the further ...h4-h3 is annoying.
c) 12 Nc3 is met by 12...Bg7! and 13...Nc6 targeting d4.
But if White doesn't play Nc3 then Black can set up with ...Qe7, ...Nc6, ... Bd7 and ...0-0-0, when he seems to have no trouble at all.
It looks like I might have to play 12 Kc1, so as to defend the d-pawn by (12...Bg7) 13 f5 and 14 Nf4, but obviously White would rather develop the a1-rook before retreating the king.