Quote:That's precisely the problem. At the time I found the tactics in the open games like Belgrade, KG, Evan's gambit too "random" and incoherent. Perhaps I have not studied 1. e4 e5 enough. But the open games are simply too complicated tactically for a child!
I have friends who started out as children playing the French because they were sick of losing miniatures. This did not stop them from becoming experts-masters later on in life. I stick to my chess-is-chess philosophy (see above) to explain this.
These are words. To me, it seems that you have many more words than experience teaching chess to children. I suggest that you watch your son playing some other kid and ask yourself, what does my kid need to learn to win his games?
Take junior and ask him to make White's move after 1. e4 e5 2. Nf3 Nc6 3. Nc3 Nf6 4. d4 exd4 5. Nxd4 Bb4. If he's like 90% of the middling 7-year-olds I know, he'll play 6. Bd2 or 6. Bd3 or 6. a3. He won't think of 6. Nxc6. And if he does think of 6. Nxc6, after 6...bxc6 he'll play 7. Bc4 and hang his e-pawn. Oh, and as Black, he probably will play 5...Nxd4 instead of developing his bishop. You see what kids need to work on? It isn't some closed defensive system. The antidote to all that ignorance isn't "Play the French."
"Losing miniatures?" Children lose short games all the time, no matter how they open the game, usually from flagrant blunders. Short games occur, but "miniatures" do not occur because very few kids have the skill to pull off the winning side of one. With much more freqency, Qh5+, with mate in two, is on the board and the kid instead plays b3. Then the other kid plays h6, leaving Qh5+ on the board, and Bb2 is played instead of the killing move.
The closest thing to a miniature occurs in children's chess when one player overlooks checkmate on f7 or f2. The antidote to that is not playing the French. Between players more or less able to see one-move mates and to hang onto their pieces, games typically are won because one player gets his pieces out first and uses his surplus activity to produce a good tactic. The antidote to that is not avoiding sharp positions, but being the one to get your pieces out first.
Have you noticed that very new players don't know how to arrange mate? That many young players can't defend against the lone queen? How often they get out-tacticked? How easy it is for them to get mated on f7? How many of them lose a rook to a simple Nc7+ or to Nxc6, bxc6, Bxc6+? All that is because the can't coordinate their pieces. Tactics is the highest form of piece coordination, but piece coordination in general and moderately respectable tactics are about 95% of what a seven-year-old needs to start winning games against good opposition. Pawn structure is way, way down on the list, except for not having a gaping hole on g7.
You are talking through your hat in your remarks about children having to "memorize lines" if they answer 1. e4 with 1...e5. Nobody responsible exposes kids to trees of variations until they get up to around 1000 -- which is quite strong for a kid in grades 3-5 -- because doing so would just daunt the blazes out of them and would not help their game. Yes, you do show them a few variations, such as the "fork trick" and a few ideas for playing against 4. Ng5 in the two knights. Then you watch their games and see what comes up, and tailor your instruction to what these kids need to know to win their games. They will remember how to handle positions that come up, because they really do want to win. From that to memorizing trees of variations is a long and very gradual transition, and one made by only the best players.
When you talk about 1...e5 having too many variations you sound more like a 1700-rated player wringing his hands over his choice of repertoire than someone interested in teaching chess.
"I have friends who started out as children playing the French because they were sick of losing miniatures." Yeah, right. That must be why, when I go to my six or seven scholastic tournaments each year, I see all these chess kids playing 1...e6. That must be why kids just fall over themselves coming to me and asking how to avoid losing miniatures. Yup.
"Chess is chess." Yeah, O.K., go ahead and teach junior the French or the Dragon. Just be careful with his heart, because the poor kid will go into his games thinking his dad has given him some actual magic for winning, when something more like the reverse will be the case.
By the way, I teach all my kids to meet the French with 2. d4 d5 3. exd5 exd5 4. c4. In this way White can insist on an open position right out of the box. But of course, it seldom comes up since so few of their opponents play the French.