trw wrote on 04/24/10 at 00:08:03:
I sometimes wonder why I play chess. I spend alot of time at tournaments, traveling to tournaments correspondence and my opening preparation... but outside of this I can't seem to make myself study anymore to improve. I don't enjoy most of the games I play (I would estimate 1%)... and its been this way for at least a year. There was a point then when I was so excited that my mouth watered for the start of the next game be it otb or correspondence... and not only was it not difficult for me to study but I did it for hours a day without losing enthusiasm.
I wonder is it burnout? A parting of the ways with chess? Or some kind of midlife chess crisis for lack of a better word. The thing is I just want to break this attitude and get back to enjoying this game and studying again. I just don't know how.
Change some of the features of your life. Here are some suggestions that may help:
a) Ask for a promotion at work. The worst the boss can say is 'No'.
b) Get a girlfriend if you don't have one at present.
c) Ditch the opening preparation and just play as much chess as you can. Play every decent opening, even if you don't know the theory.
d) If you haven't already, get a gym membership and work out. If you have a membership, play a new sport.
e) Learn another language.
f) If you are drinking or smoking, go cold turkey.
g) Change careers.
h) If possible, take long-service leave or similar.
i) If chess doesn't make you happy, stop playing. Switch to something that does make you happy.
j) Take up poker.
k) Stop reading ChessPub Forum?
Hope this helps.
A) This has nothing to do with chess.
B) This has nothing to do with chess.
C) Playing every opening is a miserable idea and a way guaranteed to get awful results and make me hate chess. Part of the only thing I still enjoy is studying certain openings.
D) I workout 5 times a week. i've lost 70lbs over the last year.
E) Learning another language while fun would take so much time I would have to quit chess to do it.
F) I do neither though most chess players seem to get much inspiration from such over indulgence.