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Reply #138 - 11/25/11 at 10:42:34
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Above a certain level (say around 2000), I find that most people who won't resign in dead lost positions repeatedly (not just out of spite) are autistic, so be careful who you toy with.
  
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Reply #137 - 11/25/11 at 01:33:09
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Dink Heckler wrote on 11/24/11 at 10:40:00:
I was watching Nakamura - Ivanchuk on the live feed yesterday, and, during the time trouble phase, Nakamura was bouncing around like he had ants in his nether regions, shaking his head, making all sorts of gestures etc. Now I'm not trying to pick on Naka; I'm sure there are far, far worse, but it did strike me watching it, with this debate fresh in mind,  that surely that sort of thing is far more distracting than an opponent discreetly nibbling on a chocolate bar. Thoughts?


I don't know about far worse - between a louse and a flea, there's no telling the precedence - but undoubtedly Nakamura's behaviour at the board is not always correct. I think this sort of thing is less to be censured, though - some people just can't prevent their emotions expressing themselves physically when they're under pressure, and I guess Naka's one of those.
  
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Reply #136 - 11/24/11 at 11:38:09
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Dink Heckler wrote on 11/24/11 at 10:40:00:
I was watching Nakamura - Ivanchuk on the live feed yesterday, and, during the time trouble phase, Nakamura was bouncing around like he had ants in his nether regions, shaking his head, making all sorts of gestures etc. Now I'm not trying to pick on Naka; I'm sure there are far, far worse, but it did strike me watching it, with this debate fresh in mind,  that surely that sort of thing is far more distracting than an opponent discreetly nibbling on a chocolate bar. Thoughts?


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Reply #135 - 11/24/11 at 10:40:00
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I was watching Nakamura - Ivanchuk on the live feed yesterday, and, during the time trouble phase, Nakamura was bouncing around like he had ants in his nether regions, shaking his head, making all sorts of gestures etc. Now I'm not trying to pick on Naka; I'm sure there are far, far worse, but it did strike me watching it, with this debate fresh in mind,  that surely that sort of thing is far more distracting than an opponent discreetly nibbling on a chocolate bar. Thoughts?
  

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Reply #134 - 11/23/11 at 02:20:27
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Nice story, But don't post their names; nobody knows them anyway.
  

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Reply #133 - 11/23/11 at 00:02:49
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I know the focus is on bad etiquette, but one of the best pieces of sportsmanship I've ever seen in a chess tournament also deserves mention.

I was in a tournament in Colorado.  A +2200 rated player was white against an "A" player.  The Master was one of the top 3-4 seeds in the tournament and had every reason to expect to win the tournament. 

About a dozen moves into the game, the "A" player was called away on a medical emergency. He was a first-alert medic and an airplane had just crashed about 30 miles away. The "A" player offered to resign.

The master immediately offered a draw even though it was almost certain to ruin his chances of winning the tournament. The position was still in the opening phase and the "A" player accepted the master's generosity. 

Sadly, there were no survivors from the wreckage of the passenger plane.

If I get permission from the players, I will post their names.
  
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Reply #132 - 11/22/11 at 17:59:20
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IMJohnCox wrote on 11/21/11 at 23:25:47:
>But IMJohnCox, while I understand your irritation, I don't think that a legal draw offer can possibly be condemned. 

I'm surprised to hear you say that. A draw offer in a lost position is (I thought universally) regarded as poor form and personally I think offering a draw to a player who has very little time is also unacceptable - after all, the main object of it is precisely to distract him from concentrating on his proper move and perhaps even persuade him to lose on time. If you do want to offer a draw in these circumstances, it's incumbent on you to be very careful about finishing your offer before pressing the clock.

An act doesn't have to be unlawful to be condemned; the entire point of etiquette is that complying with the rules is the start and not the end of it.

Anyway, as others have pointed out, this particular offer was in fact not made according to the rules.

My opponent was not a child either - obviously children sometimes do do this sort of thing and are to be educated rather than condemned.


I agree.  What I meant was, I think you're entitled to think badly of someone who does this sort of thing, but not to complain about it.  I think that complaining about some player's legal actions is itself bad form.  You should just grit your teeth, I think.  Vent to your chess buddies, but don't complain about it in public.  I don't say that's what you did.

I once offered a draw in a last-round, Sunday afternoon game, notwithstanding that I was a safe pawn up and had a good chance to win.  My opponent had driving to Columbus from Cleveland, about two hours away, with three other players.  My game was the only one still being played, and all those people wanted to get back to Cleveland.  My winning would have consumed at least another hour.

Playing on was my absolute right, however, and I would not have appreciated anyone's complaining about it if that had been my choice.
  

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Reply #131 - 11/22/11 at 17:52:36
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Dink Heckler wrote on 11/21/11 at 16:47:24:
It is funny how quickly norms change. It seems that nowadays nibbling on a chocolate bar is strongly opposed by a majority, whereas smoking at the board was permitted until relatively recently. As a kid I was regularly assaulted with clouds of cigarette smoke; now that really is distracting...


So was I, to the point that for many years, I always unconsciously associated the smell of cigarette smoke with chess.  Fortunately I have lost that association.  But smoking in the playing hall has been forbidden for many years, on this side of the water.
  

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Reply #130 - 11/22/11 at 00:41:42
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IMJohnCox wrote on 11/21/11 at 23:25:47:
>A draw offer in a lost position is (I thought universally) regarded as poor form and personally I think offering a draw to a player who has very little time is also unacceptable - after all, the main object of it is precisely to distract him from concentrating on his proper move and perhaps even persuade him to lose on time.

Repeated draw offers or ones in losing positions are of course unacceptable, but I always thought the "gamesmanship" draw offer ("You're a bit ahead on the board but perilously low on time, so I'm going to give you one more thing to think about") was totally part of the game. I'm sure Simon Webb would have agreed...

I'll also sometimes offer a draw if both I and my opponent are running out of time and it seems more fair to just declare it a draw than to effectively flip a coin to see who can survive the time scramble.

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If you do want to offer a draw in these circumstances, it's incumbent on you to be very careful about finishing your offer before pressing the clock.

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An act doesn't have to be unlawful to be condemned; the entire point of etiquette is that complying with the rules is the start and not the end of it.

Indeed. I am always taken aback when people are called on their rude behavior and then say "I had the right to do that!" Of course; that's why the behavior was rude and not simply illegal.
  
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Re: Chess etiquette
Reply #129 - 11/22/11 at 00:39:42
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Bibs wrote on 11/21/11 at 12:53:39:
Humiliate? In a chess game? Oh, behave. Couldn't be bothered. Finish as quick as possible to get away from the fool. 
Better things to do.


When you're in an open tournament there's nothing to do before the next round anyway. It's just killing time.

Closed tournaments would obviously be different.
  

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Reply #128 - 11/21/11 at 23:25:47
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>But IMJohnCox, while I understand your irritation, I don't think that a legal draw offer can possibly be condemned. 

I'm surprised to hear you say that. A draw offer in a lost position is (I thought universally) regarded as poor form and personally I think offering a draw to a player who has very little time is also unacceptable - after all, the main object of it is precisely to distract him from concentrating on his proper move and perhaps even persuade him to lose on time. If you do want to offer a draw in these circumstances, it's incumbent on you to be very careful about finishing your offer before pressing the clock.

An act doesn't have to be unlawful to be condemned; the entire point of etiquette is that complying with the rules is the start and not the end of it.

Anyway, as others have pointed out, this particular offer was in fact not made according to the rules.

My opponent was not a child either - obviously children sometimes do do this sort of thing and are to be educated rather than condemned.
  
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Reply #127 - 11/21/11 at 16:47:24
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It is funny how quickly norms change. It seems that nowadays nibbling on a chocolate bar is strongly opposed by a majority, whereas smoking at the board was permitted until relatively recently. As a kid I was regularly assaulted with clouds of cigarette smoke; now that really is distracting...
  

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Reply #126 - 11/21/11 at 14:47:22
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In simuls and casual games, I will often promote to N+B and mate with that.

In a serious tournament game, I try to be as efficient as possible though.

Nakamura's 6 Knights Mate against Crafty in 2007 is almost a work of art!

I don't know that chess etiquette really prefers efficient play over punishing the player who doesn't resign. I suppose someone could argue that two wrongs don't make a right. But is it really wrong to finish the game in the most entertaining way for you?

After all, the real objective of chess is to have fun.
  
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Reply #125 - 11/21/11 at 12:53:39
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Humiliate? In a chess game? Oh, behave. Couldn't be bothered. Finish as quick as possible to get away from the fool. 
Better things to do.
  
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Reply #124 - 11/21/11 at 12:13:13
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I had a simple rook up ending once that my opponent refused to resign. Literally rook against nothing with 3-4 pawns each and no dangerous passers! I proceeded to underpromote to a rook and use the standard zig-zag mate with two rooks. And he even played that out to mate... 

After the game, he had the nerve to accuse me of being disrespectful in deliberately choosing a weaker piece!  Roll Eyes
  

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