chk wrote on 03/27/12 at 07:39:48:
A bit off-topic again:
Loved that quote!
Markovich wrote on 03/27/12 at 04:02:38:
His parents said, "When will Johnny start winning?" and I said, "When he gets tired of losing."
About 4 years ago I was 'rushed' to my club's 1st team and was paired with lots of 1900/2000s. My results were very poor (but my chess was good). What did me most harm was that my attacks were not so successful anymore (these people knew how to defend! and also played good chess under time pressure - which proved to be my Achilles' heel). My coach had another good quote: "Keep playing good chess and the results will eventually come."
I remember thinking: "Thank God I'm an adult and can endure all this. But what goes on in the minds of little kids? Can a kid keep on losing for a year and still keep alive the passion for chess?"
Some of these kids are unfairly paired against really strong opponents, which does a lot of harm imo (but this is completely out of topic, so

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Because of the way ratings work when only a few games have been played (here in the US anyway), it did sometimes happen that a fairly good player would start playing rated chess and suddenly aquire a stratospheric rating. This was hell, frankly. The kid then had to face nothing but overpowering opposition until his rating adjusted back down -- something that takes more time the longer you play. So it was very difficult on some kids.
I could never talk tournament directors into letting kids in this category play down. They never wanted to risk chess parents complaining that little Johnny had to play a 1450, notwithstanding that his actual strength was perhaps 1000.
Those cases required special support, but I would never have considered recommending a different way of playing.
@Paddy: Yes, I am sure your experience is much broader and deeper than mine. I worked entirely with kids 11 and under, and I never wanted for bright and extremely well-motivated players. At the school where I volunteered, we ran a "Chess Club" for just anyone who wanted to play chess; and a "Chess Team" for a select group of players usually chosen for their good fighting qualities. Chess Club met once a week for an hour, during the school day; Chess Team met once a week for 90 minutes, after school. Chess Club received 5-minute mini-lessons followed by play against a challenge ladder; Chess Team received 15-to-30-minute lessons followed by intense round robin play with clocks, most often in quads but fairly often in speed chess battle royals.
Most Chess Team kids became fierce, fierce opponents and pretty well terrorized scholastic chess in this state.
There were a few who lost motivation after some time on chess team. We just carried them along. At a young age you can't kick a kid out. But invariably the problem was enthusiam or having worse fighting qualities that I originally thought. I would never have considered teaching special openings to these few kids, nor would they have picked it up if I had.
I just said we didn't kick kids off Chess Team, but we sometimes did if they failed to live up to team responsibilities. These included, (1) always come to Chess Club and Chess Team if able, (2) respect other players, parents and coaches and (3) support the weekend tournament schedule as much as possible.
I did give free 90-minute lessons in my home to the one or two most outsanding players in any given year, but not that many players in total, and never encountered there any difficulty picking up the classical approach.
@SWJediKnight: I agree, though I would prefer to see these players play the Blackmar-Diemer, which is a great system for learning good principles.