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Just have him play chess and not worry about openings very much. Have him read books on strategy, tactics, pawn structure, endings, game collections of great players, etc, etc. There is a ton of enjoyable material out there that your relative can work on that will help him to become a better player. Books like Pawn Structure Chess will teach him a ton about openings without having to memorize much, if any, "theory." Eventually if he falls in love with the game, he'll become interested in a particular opening and want to study it more deeply. If he's starting out, he shouldn't have to worry about theory, there is so much more to learn. I think that it's a common misconception that a person has to learn a ton of "theory" to start playing chess well. You can get pretty far by just studying master games, strategy, tactics, endgames, etc. When someone wants to learn heavier theory, they may. A player really only needs to know enough to get a playable game against their opponents, and when someone is starting out it's much more useful to frame their mistakes in the opening as tactical or strategic errors, or as violating general principles, instead of talking about theory, which is off-putting and unhelpful. So I wouldn't recommend any openings to your relative, give them an inspiring game collection that would suit their level, and let them enjoy and investigate the game for themselves. I loved Winning Chess Brilliancies by Yasser Seirawan as one of my first books, and through it I became interested in a couple of opening systems.
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