Used to be a part of the "French is annoying" squad; had okayish results with 2.d3 it was never really something I *wanted* to play.
I kept trying to learn 3.Nc3 both on my own and later with the Negi GM Rep and never got anywhere. Haven't looked back since switching to the Advance; just much less effort and much more understandable positions to me.
My first OTB game with it then also turned into a very one-sided crush, which provided me with the last tidbits of confidence needed
I might eventually look into this stuff
http://www.spraggettonchess.com/the-french-exchange-variation/ as a 2ndary variation, but for now I'm quite happy with what I got.
My only real 'bogey opening' left appears to be the Scandinavian..
It just seems to be an opening so silly that I have a hard time motivating myself to look at it seriously, and then I never understand in what kind of position it's good to go for the d4-d5 break and when it's not;
So I waste endless amounts of time attempting to calculate it on every turn, never actually dare to do it, and just end up moving pieces around randomly until my opponent has finished his development and there isn't a semblance of an advantage left, with my d4 pawn getting weaker on every turn
I just seem unable to figure out when d4-d5 causes me to be left over with a clearly superior position thanks to piece acivity etc, and when it merely gives away my space advantage while inviting several piece trades, ending up in a rather dead position.