IMJohnCox wrote on 06/29/11 at 12:01:46:
Markovich and SF, do you ever find that your pupils want to play different openings from the start, and if so do you 'let' them? I used to play the Pirc and Botvinnik English as a child simply because that was what I saw my father playing and I assumed that's what you did, and when I got a bit older (say 11/12) I played various openings -e.g. the Centre Counter, King's Gambit, f4 and Alapin Sicilians (this last then a very minor sideline) just because no-one else did and I liked to be different. I don't think I'd have welcomed being told I 'ought' to play anything else in particular. Of course everyone is different, and maybe I'd be a better player now if I'd been playing the Two Knights.
I've only coached a few players in the one-on-one way that you mean. I don't know if I should explain at length, but I will.
Every thing I did was as a volunteer at a local elementary school. Most of my instructional time was devoted to what we called "Chess Team," which was a select group of 10-16 kids who met for 90 minutes in the evening once each week. This was pulled out of "Chess Club" which consisted of two "ladders" of about 30 kids each, each separately meeting for about 1 hour during the school week. "Chess Team" was the cadre of our scholastic tournament participation.
At "Chess Club" kids just played chess against a challenge ladder, though they might get a five-minute mini-less on this or that. "Chess Team" received more instruction, maybe as much as 30 minutes out of the 90. But for at least an hour, Chess Team played chess in a variety of formats: quads, team matches, "buddy chess" (make every other move; no talking to your buddy),"torture chess" (never touch your own pieces; announce your move in proper notation), five-minute chess, two-minute chess and so on and so forth.
Very occasionally I passed out opening notes at Chess Team, but mostly I just showed ideas on the demo board and expected the kids to pick them up. I did expect the kids to play 1.e4 and to answer 1.e4 with 1...e5. Only once or twice did a kid show an inclination to play anything else, and it was always because some chess dad decided to teach his kid to play the Sicilian or the Pirc or whatever. I just told the kids, and the dads, to cut it out. It was never much of a problem, I suppose because, A, I was a National Master, B, I was volunteering gobs of my time to the benefit of their kids, and C, our program always had terrific success in the scholastic arena. Also, I suppose, in a team setting there's a lot of incentive to do things the team way.
The only one-on-one instruction I ever gave was to highly promising individuals that I selected from Chess Team; never more than two at a time and usually just one. So in 17 years of coaching chess kids, I can count on my two hands the number of kids who received individual instruction from me at any great length. I usually met these highly select kids at my house for an hour each week.
That is where I did indeed teach openings and did prepare tables of variations that I wanted the students to learn (like I said in another post, though, not usually very deep tables). I had very scant trouble getting the kids to play what I wanted, except for one dad who was rated around 1750 and took a much more active role in his son's chess instruction that I wanted him to. For some reason, he really took offense at my telling him that his kid had to drop the Sicilian. He finally came around and became a big supporter -- but always, unfortunately, meddled much more than I would have wished with his kid's game. In particular he was always on his kid's case to win more games and to spend more time studying and the like. Once or twice I had to ask him to get off his kid's case. But what can you do? There are parents like that.
I certainly wouldn't have donated an hour of my time each week to the private instruction of a chess kid, no matter how promising, who wasn't going to follow my advice. But push never really came to shove.
There may be other, better ways to teach chess, but that was the way I did it. Maybe if I had encounted a kid such as you were I would've done something a little different, I don't know. But never the Pirc, that's for sure.