Okay, a few replies:
SWJediknight wrote on 03/29/12 at 13:09:23:
Therefore most critical are probably 3.d3 (initiating a reversed King's Gambit Declined) and 3.Nc3, when White should get a nice edge, though nothing decisive.
I'm looking for something more concrete than one move suggestions. I'd answer these two moves: 3 d3 Nf6 and 3 Nc3 Nf6 (or 3...Nc6!?).
Gambit wrote on 03/29/12 at 17:22:38:
After 1 e4 e5 2 Bc4 f5 3 d4 d6 4 Nf3 b5 transposes to the Philidor Counter-Gambit: Newark Gambit.
3 d4 is better met by 3...exd4, when 4 e5!? d5 followed by ...c5 is a strange sort of reversed Falkbeer. I think Black is okay here.
Bresando wrote on 03/29/12 at 13:09:41:
In case you don't know, you can find some analysis at goeller's "Urusov gambit system" website. I think he advocated 3.f4 as a way to create a sharp simmetry which should be in principle favourable to white.
3 f4 is met by 3...exf4!, transposing to the Bishop's Gambit with 3...f5!? which is not at all bad for Black.
MNb wrote on 03/30/12 at 03:17:07:
Modification: 3.d3 spoils all Black's fun
How does it do that exactly? As you suggest lower down, 3 d3 Nf6 4.f4 (this stems from Jaenisch I think, rather than Staunton) 4...Nc6 is not so bad for Black either.
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